For starters this is a true micro mini and I ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT, but unfortunately it has a built-in panty (nude color), although cute it's not my style. I prefer wearing a micro thong or going bare but since it's so cheap I bought two figuring I would remove the panty in one and have a back-up in case I ruined the skirt. Luckily, I still have the knack for alterations from my entertainment aka "dancing days" working through college :) and I successfully removed the panty. I normally get XS from FN because even at 40 I'm 5'5", still about 110ish, 25/34 waist/hips with a little bubble butt, but they only had small available. My biggest concern going with the small, even though the skirt has an elastic waist, it was going to be too loose on me. It did fit better than expected as it wasn't loose per se but not as snug as I typically like yet is still insanely short which was the whole point of buying this micro mini! With this having an elastic waist it gives you the ability to wear it lower or higher on your waist depending on how much you want to show. Even if you wear it lower on your waist and the material having a good stretch to it be prepared for the bottom of your booty to constantly be making an appearance. Although, your panties or kitty, if you decide to go bare, will be covered until you sit :) But if you're not paying attention the skirt will ride up on you and you'll be showing an even healthier portion of your booty. Plus, whether you keep the attached panty or remove it like I did and wear a micro thong or go bare (I've done both), your kitty will be easily visible. Overall, no matter what your age this is a wonderful little micro mini to show off in, tease, flirt and definitely flash and in my case advertise that I'm a "HotWife" :) I 100% recommend this micro mini, don't hesitate, buy it!