Is this heather grey? It appears to be more of a taupe in the pic. And gals who are short/curvy, (I am 5’3”, 165 lbs), would you recommend an XL or will that make the corset part weird/baggy/long? Does anyone know how to ask questions like this to the company? I’m nervous about ordering from here bc off my body type and the return policies😳

Didn’t like the fit