Y’allll my ears can usually take a bit of heavy weight BUT THISSS… OH HECKSSS NO!! These are EXTREMELY HEAVY! Even if you change them to be clip on earrings, they would still weigh down your earlobes greatly! It’s a shame because they truly are beautiful and excellent quality, just entirely TOO heavy. The size is true to the picture, which I loved, but I can’t wear this weight, neither can I gift it because it would be unimaginable to gift knowing the damage of stretching it would create.